Chapter 38: Thinking About Life
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- graph seems to show that life satisfact’n declines after marriage, apparently fr. adaptation, routine
- · but answers to q’s re life satisfaction ß not fr. careful thought, rather current mood, or small sample of ideas coming easily to mind (e.g. signif. event near in time, health of loved one, an achieve’t)
- · graph can be seen as showing likelihood that people will think of recent or forthcoming marriage when asked about their life — idea diminishes in time
- · finding: exper’d well-being mostly unaffected by marriage, balancing effect (pros and cons)
- · one factor in low correlation betw circumst’s & life satisf’n is genetic dispos’n
- · youthful goals impt in life satisf’n — setting difficult goals as youth à unhappiness later — esp performing arts
- · well-being shd not be viewed only as exper’d well-being — def’n of well-being must incl goals + exper’d well-being + retrospective life satsif’n
The Focusing Illusion
- · answers to q’s about one’s life are so fast that they must use heuristics, i.e. substit’n & WYSIATI — answ infl’d by anything you happen to be attending to
- · focusing illusion — nothing in life is as impt as you think it is when thinking about it
- · permanent life circumstances have little effect on well-being — e.g. climate (even tho people believe climate is impt) — e.g. How much pleasure do you get fr. your car? While driving you think of other things, pleasure only comes when you think about your car, S1 has subst’ted & answ’ed “How much pleasure do you get fr. your car when you think about it?”
- · normally we don’t think abt climate, paraplegic abt disability, simply seems normal, except when brought to attention
- · people used to their burdensome condition may hv normal exper’d well-being, but low life satisf’n because the q focuses them (their rememb. self) on their condition
- · miswanting — bad choices ß poor emotional forecasting, exagg. future effect of change in circumstances, prospects illusory — focusing illusion biased toward goods & experiences that are initially exciting, duration neglect
Time and Time Again
- · signif of time — for the exper. self life is a series of moments, each w. a value —value of an episode (a hedonimeter total) is simply sum of values of its moments
- · but the mind represents episodes w the rememb. self, wh. tells stories & makes choices, w/o properly rep’ing time — in storytelling mode, an episode is rep’d by a few critical moments, esp beginning, peak, & end — duration is neglected
- · e.g. cold hand exp’t, prospect theory (focus on transition to new state rather than on waning of excitement), decision util.
- · the mind is good w stories, but not process time well
- · the word happiness has various meanings
Speaking of Thinking About Life
- · “She thought that buying a fancy car would make her happier, but it turned out to be an error of affective forecasting.”
- · “His car broke down on the way to work this morning and he’s in a foul mood. This is not a good day to ask him about his job satisfaction!”
- · “She looks quite cheerful most of the time, but when she is asked, she says she is very unhappy. The question must make her think of her recent divorce.”
- · “Buying a larger house may not make us happier in the long term. We could be suffering fr. a focusing illusion.”
- · “He has chosen to split his time between two cities. Probably a serious case of miswanting.”
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